You've gotta know who are the people worth spending a big part of your day are .. in other words I mean to say that you've gotta know who your real friends are . I've changed alot of schools and met alot of people . But out of so many people I've spent school or college or university days with I can only name a handful of them I'd call my "friends" .
The thing is first of all lets clear the definition of a friend in my mind and yours . A friend , pal , chum , buddy whatever you may call him/her is an individual who you can talk the worlds' crap with , you can insult in front of the whole world and get away with it 'cause actually even he's laughing with you on your choice of words and expressions . Friends don't have to be all close and keep each others secrets . They don't need to do any kindness for you or do your homework for you or let you stay in their house if your parents kick you out of theirs .
Its a wrong concept with with the whole bumper sticker concept of a good friend and real friend !! Dude seriously their is no such thing . The only thing that exists is a FRIEND . No best or childhood or whatever attached to that .
Don't have stupid expectations from them .. jealousy towards them . Don't hate your friend coz he has a hot girlfriend.. hate the girlfriend for being so hot that she burning your relationship with your friend.
And most of all before deciding if that girl/guy is your true friend think that are you a good enough friend for them ?? Would you be able to do what your expecting them to do ?
That's where it all begins and that's where it all ends .
Also check this really funny but nice video .. I'm sure alot of us have seen it .
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEH6KFonIUg&playnext=1&list=PLAED2FC7B6E2C9AC9
Cheerio :)
Don't have stupid expectations from them .. jealousy towards them . Don't hate your friend coz he has a hot girlfriend.. hate the girlfriend for being so hot that she burning your relationship with your friend.
And most of all before deciding if that girl/guy is your true friend think that are you a good enough friend for them ?? Would you be able to do what your expecting them to do ?
That's where it all begins and that's where it all ends .
Also check this really funny but nice video .. I'm sure alot of us have seen it .
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEH6KFonIUg&playnext=1&list=PLAED2FC7B6E2C9AC9
Cheerio :)
3 comments:
so damn true mehreen!!
The value of true friendship is infinite and priceless. Nothing can compare or ever replace the genuine, caring connection between two people who not only understand, but want only the very best of all things in life for the other. It is a gift, it is a treasure dude:)))
and lastly thank u so much for being so considerate and writing this blog for me<3!
means alot mehreen:D!
The pleasure was all mine dear :)
u r right mehreen.. expectation hurts.. friendship is so beautiful when u r not expecting anything in return.. when u start doing that it becomes a wierd give n take relation :!
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